I'll paraphrase Oliver Wendell Holmes: I don't know what it is, But I know it when I see it.
Long may this ever be the case, as soon as everyone believes in a set list of things that are or arent VSF or indeed Steampunk/Gaslight whatever that's when the genre becomes stale and boring.
Steampunk is limited to the Technology. It has to be STEAM based.
I have to disagree, though naturally in the spirit of my first sentence you are entitled to have your steampunk any way you want.
From my experience of the Gaslight/Steampunk community there is only a small group who think the Steam in the name means all the tech must be steam powered, in the vast majority of cases the steam is just a reference to victorian, or victorian style, techology in its entirety.