but with a modicum of reason.
That's all you really need to apply.
However that would also include the question of 'how plentiful is the ammo for the weapon'? Could we make our own? Bullets even up to .50, are somewhat more easily constructed than rockets or recoilless rounds.
As far as 'size matters'... here's my favourite photo of the M56 Scorpion firing its 90mm gun;
Despite it having recoil dampening and it being actually designed to use the weapon it mounts, the experience of actually firing it probably gave a 'clench factor' of about 6:10.