Wargame forums...

[Deedles]

Use various blogs and you tube etc. LAF daily visit is usually an enjoyable visit.  Generally dont bother with others and avoid one of them

[stone-cold-lead]

I check out the Oldhammer forum for old school goodness and keep an eye on Random Platypus as well although it's pretty quiet over there. Not bothered with TMP much and managed to lock my own account by ignoring the Editor anyway. Given up on Frothers for now. LAF is certainly the most active of the sites I use/have used (I know TMP is bigger but it's like a damned time machine back to the 90's!  ).

[forrester]

Here and TMP, not very active either here or there, more so on The Guild, which is weighted towards 20mm WW2 and so fine for me. Very helpful forum with plenty of willingness to share knowledge.

[Streetline]

Here, TWW and The One Ring (for it's obvious LOTR focus!).  Not banned from anywhere but haven't been "there" for months.  I find my new focus takes much of the irritation out of the internet.

JDE

[Agent Brown]

Tactical Command for EpicA (and any other 6mm SF)
http://www.tacticalwargames.net/taccmd/index.php
Dux Rampant for Dan Mersey's excellent rules sets, Dux Bellorum and Lion Rampant.
http://duxrampant.yuku.com/
Others as mentioned; Wargames Website, Frothers (great site if you're that way inclined).
Banned from TMP and don't miss it. Certainly couldn't recommend it but I am biased.

[paintinglittlesoldiers]

• I joined Random platypus recently as I've learnt a bit about painting to a better quality from following some of there users there on other forums.
  
  LAF - I like but its very "busy". I don't get time to check too often and when I click new posts I get a big list. I just need to spend a bit of time sorting out my priorities I guess or visit more often.
  
  Wargamewebsite - Sci Fi, Modern topics I follow.
  
  Frothers and my My local gaming forum.