I'm in the same boat you're in Carlos. I can't get many people to play Samurai games, and when I heard there were quite a few people into Bushido at a local store I figured I'd pick it up. I haven't actually got to play it yet (first game is next week), but I've picked up quite a few models, painted them up and made objective markers. I think I've read the rules through 5 times. They actually seem pretty fun, although complex compared to Ronin and Daisho.
As far as the models go, I feel they're a mixed bag. Some of them are spectacular, but there are quite a few that look subtly off for some reason, either because they're too stiff or slightly out of proportion. I chose Temple of Ro-Kan for the Monks and kami. I want to like Savage Wave, but the bakemono just look too much like Pathfinder goblins.
What have you and your wife decided on for factions. Have you read through the rules? What do you think of them?