My experience is similar to Mako's. The non-toxic solvents sort-of work, but produce a weak bond that can't tolerate much stress without cracking. And like Mako, it's been a long time since I tried them, so take that with a grain of salt for whatever's on the market these days.
FYI not all the good ol' toxic stuff is MEK based. Some of it is dichloromethane based. Dichloromethane is less toxic than MEK, but more volatile, so it sort of evens out, vapor-wise.
IMO the best thing to do is use a liquid instead of a goop, and keep the lid on the bottle between applications. Tube goop slow releases it's vapors, so once applied to the model it'll keep stinking up the room for an hour or more. Liquids flash off more or less instantly, so it's just a whiff and gone. Keep the cap on the bottle. Don't leave it open on the bench while you work. Open the bottle only when you're immediately ready to glue something, and close it the moment that join is in place. Think of it like trigger discipline for glue.